The popular sayings, “Mother is God” and “Father is God” (Maatri Devo Bhavah; Pitri Devo Bhavah) give parents the task of providing their children with the experiences that sculpt their thoughts, hopes, aspirations and ideologies as they take their place as citizens of their society.
The renowned Chanakya Maharaj characterises mother as Truth and father as Knowledge. Mothers provide the spirit of virtuous, moral and spiritual enhancement in their children. The role of the father in the upbringing of a child is just as vital. He is representative of wisdom that is manifest in his courage, grit, determination and fearlessness, all symbols of strength, power, inspiration and accomplishment. Such qualities are crucial to the development of stable, balanced and confident individuals.
In fact, the total picture of the young personality can only be fully enhanced and balanced by the presence of this towering storehouse of wisdom. The father should be the one to provide experiences for his children that would develop in them qualities of endurance, courage, valour and fortitude which are like the wheels of the chariot of life. Also, fathers’ discretion, strength, self-control and benevolence would encourage children to learn to equip themselves with the driving force necessary to face their world. Of course, the relentless bow of wisdom ensures victory in every challenge, societal or otherwise. Is this not the sure recipe for success in life?
At this time tribute is paid to you fathers; your role in the home is of equal importance as that of the mother. Follow the lead of fathers such as Kings Janak and Dasharath who ensured that their children acquired the skills necessary for life. Take your role seriously as you influence your offspring along the path of dharma. Be honest and straightforward with them. Use every opportunity to provide the right guidance to them. Raise them with care and set the right examples. Bedeck them with the armour of virtue and as they mature, they will go courageously on the chariot of righteousness to face the world. In the end, they will lift your name in pride as they progress to unsurpassed pinnacles of success.
SWAHA wishes all fathers a Happy Father’s Day 2019.
